So I just saw a piece of art that was a girl holding up a sign that said that she wanted someone who will make her feel like herself. She said she wanted a reason to breath. I had to shake my head. I didn't comment, I figured it would sound preachy, but it bothers me when girls think they need someone else to let them be themselves. You're you, without someone to hug and kiss, and that's wonderful! You're wonderful!

I'm married now, but I was single basically up until I met my husband at the age of 19. I felt sorry for myself some times, but gradually I realized that no guy could like me if I didn't already like myself. I had to be a whole person and no man could make me that way.

Your self worth should not be defined by someone else. This seems to be an issue that so many girls have. I'm not saying I'm cured either, but it makes me sad to see how many girls are sitting and waiting for Mr. Right to come and complete them. They're a complete person already! Just like I was a whole person before my husband came along, and he was a whole person before me. Sure we fit well together, but we would both still be alive and wonderfully complete if we had never met.

Well, that's my two cents for those who care to read it. (so probably Wolfie lol)

Love to all the gals out there finding their own path and being strong!